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How Your
Doula Will Help You Through Labor
After an initial phone conversation, we can schedule an interview at no
charge.
Once an agreement is signed and the retainer fee is received, we will
send you an educational packet. We will discuss all of the material
in the packet during your prenatal visit. We will make ample time for
you and your partner to ask questions and practice techniques
you will use during labor. The remainder of the fee is due by the 38th
week of your pregnancy.
I have a supportive partner do I still need a doula?
The most well intentioned partner can not replace the value of a trained
professional. The role of your doula is very different from the partner's
role. While they are equally important, labor support works best when
the doula and the partner are working together. The partner is able
to support the mother emotionally because there is an intimate relationship
already established.
The doula has the experience and training of a professional. Your
doula's experience and training will bring a calm to the birth at
a time that can feel scary or uncertain. A woman is better able to
cope with her labor when she has both the emotional support of her
partner and the professional support of a doula.
Your doula will come to you when labor becomes intense
and you feel like you need help. This is usually when your contractions
are about 5 minutes apart with a duration of approximately 1 minute.
You can choose to labor at home with support from your doula or your
doula can met you at your birthing place.
Your doula will provide support during labor and delivery
and immediately after the baby is born. Your doula will also support
you throughout initial breastfeeding.
Your doula will come to see you on your first or second day after your birth.
My doctor doesn't see the value of labor support, can I still
have a doula?
Your doula will meet with you prenatally to get a clear understanding
about what is important to you. She will spend time educating you
and helping you achieve your goals. Your doula has no agenda about
how you should give birth; she is there to support you.
Your doctor will probably be present towards the end of your labor
when birth is eminent. He/she will most likely not be there for emotional
support or to provide comfort during your labor. Since the doctor
comes to you towards the end of labor they may not appreciate the
value of a trained professional by your side.
Your doula is a professional and is skilled working with medical
personnel. Her job is completely separate from the work of your doctor.
Often it is the doctor who is thanking the doula after the birth!
What if I am giving birth to my baby by cesarean section, can I still
have a doula?
No matter how your baby is born it is still a birth. Becoming a mother
is an exciting time. Going through major abdominal surgery is not
an easier task nor is it any less frightening than a vaginal delivery.
Hospital policy allowing, your doula will continue to be by your side
during the delivery of your baby by cesarean section and follow you
through the immediate recovery process.
While the baby and the birth partner are in the nursery, the
mother may find herself in recovery alone. The benefits of having
your doula by your side throughout this process are immeasurable.
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